So here's the thing about relationships: they are harder to build than a card castle.
Try and try, you mite get two or more tiers, but then it all comes crashing down. Sadly this is the honest truth. Now you're thinking, "I know people that have been together forever", or "I'm not like that with my partner". True enough, there are long lasting relationships. They are hard to build, but not impossible. It takes time, effort, sweat, determination, and even a little stubbornness. Why is this? It is because you are asking two people in essence to occupy the same space. Even science buff will tell you, that two objects of matter cannot occupy the same space. Yet, we still try it anyway in hopes of being the couple that defies that odds. Now advocacy of singleness or being alone is not the aim here. Simply to enlighten people to their own displaced misgivings of idyllic relationships. Even the best built relationships have their share of problems. Does this mean we should not attempt to enter one? No. Again an immovable irony that perpetuates throughout human life. It's that walk against the wind mentality that is somehow genetic wired into us all despite age, race, creed, color, or status. In today's era we really see the irony that plays a part in relationships. Women with their so-called "independence", but let something go wrong and who do they run to. Men with their embrace your "feminine side", yet are mocked for showing their true emotions. Lets not even get started on gender assignments or homosexuality. It often seems as that both genders somehow got lost along the way when Relationships 101 was being taught. Cheating, lying, abuse all these things plague today's couples. It is a sad predicament. Where did the problem begin? TO BE CONTINUED.....
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