Indian Givers

Here it's free of charge. Tax free. No interest. No hidden fees. All terms that give us the impression that whatever we are about to receive, is not going to have any cost past what is originally stated. To the keen eye however, you would be wary of such "FREE" items. In life there are so many situations where we are promised something in the onset then receive something different in the outset. WHY? Well the term most readily applied to this phenomenon is Indian Giving. We are familiar with this. Your bank says "free checking" and then charges you a service fee. Your parents say sure you can take the car, AFTER these extra chores. You would be hard pressed to truly find something that you could obtain without some hidden strings attached. The same goes with the heart. Someone could give you their heart, then ask for it back. This is by far the worst of all. Love, a term so easily thrown about, but so heavily weighted. People so often give it not knowing that it comes with "strings". So often it is given too soon. Sometimes to easily. Sadly sometimes too late. But what do you do when the love you've been given is asked back? How can you just return something that you've used? Where is your warranty? your guarantee? What if you had given love in return? Is it void as well, or does the person get to keep both? Well, that hardly seems fair. But again, far too often, that is the case. GREED. The driving force behind even the most noble exchanges. People don't want just THEIRS, they want YOURS too. They give you their heart and you give them yours, and now they want them both. You are now left ALONE and WITHOUT your love to give to another. A shallow husk of the once vibrant life you once were. A piece of your SOUL forever stolen by the greed of another. Now how can you go on? How can you function? If you were to receive love again would you even know what to do with having lost your own? Our society is plagued by this. NO ravaged. Stolen love. The very notion that you could get your full return on used love is beyond reality. Yet in still daily, people take back the love they once gave. How do you guard yourself against this? Never give your love away? that is futile. Never give it back? Futile as well. The only true solution is to build up as much love from as many sources as possible, Keep reserves. A veritable bank of love. Let it collect interest. Then when you give out your love you always have some on hold still growing. No one person should ever be able to obtain the love of another. Love is the only resource that is truly limitless and indestructible. For those of you who may be scorned by stolen love, all hope is not lost. Go out and take back your love, with one new experience at a time. Rebuild your love and remember the plan.